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newest member of the family!

I just had to post pictures of the newest member of our family.  His name is Edward, but his friends can call him Eddie.  He was so sweet last night, did not wake me up once ... I actually woke up at three in a panic about the dog (you see, he sleeps in his bed, in my bed ... for now), but there he was, sleeping soundly with his little arms stretched out over his head ... lovely!

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ok- so Vietnam

OK - so Vietnam.  Yes, yes I know I have been back for a while and should have written something ... anything but I just had to find a bit of myself again after all of the traveling.  Do you know ... I counted ... since the beginning of the year and this last trip, I have only been at home five weeks! Not that I am complaining ... what a wonderful opportunity to travel, see new places and meet new friends.

OK - so Vietnam ;) Vietnam was a sigh of relief actually.  Of course my mum was afraid that I would offend the Communist government and by asking the wrong questions or saying the wrong thing and then ending up in jail or something, and some friends of mine visited the place recently and they did not like it ... at all.  So you can imagine that I was a bit apprehensive about going .. it was suggested that I take my own sleeping bag ... and lots of snacks.  BUT then I thought ... hell I've been to India how bad can it be?  So I promptly ignored those suggestions ...  and I am very glad I did!

First off - Hanoi.  What a lovely city.  Busy and bustling with lots and lots of shops but at the same time not so overwhelming that you feel disoriented.  I did not go to Vietnam for shopping but I am sure that you can find lots of nice stuff there.  In the city itself they have streets dedicated to certain items .. so you will find a street of shoes, a street of paintings etc.  one of my favourites was the street of birds and the street of flowers - absolutely magnificant!  We spent only two nights in Hanoi .. the first night we went to a local place where we had a "hot pot" - essentially its is a pot on a hot plate with water and you cook your own food - mmm very good!  Unfortunately (or fortunately) I did have a bit of Hanoi vodka - celebrating the fact that this was our first night in Vietnam and as a result I promptly scratched my arm (quite deep) on the menu stand as I was coming from the bathroom. But luckily I think my current state prevented me from feeling too much.  Marius as usual thought very fast and poured some of the vodka on the scratch - it stung like hell BUT I did not get any infection and I was right as rain...

Talking about rain ... it rained a lot in Vietnam.  We left for Hanoi and went to the province of Bac Kan and there to the Ba Be National Park.  Here we spent some time interviewing people and just some time in the villages.  It was a lovely experience to be able to go into people's houses and be able to experience some of that culture fist hand.  Even the non-anthropologists had to admit that there is definitely a difference between studying some place from a distance and actually "being there".  The weather in Ba Be was really wet and it was even wet in the guest house where we stayed at - even the linen flet wet.  Predictably I got the flu and despite that fact that I had a whole medicine bag I never thought of taking flu medication with ... yes not too bright!  Any way I survived and we went on to Na Hang Reserve.  Both of these places (Ba Be and Na Hang) have beautiful landscapes- MArius said it perfectly - "it looks like a scene from Avatar".  I can certainly also understand why the Amrecians had a hard time of it in these jungles - magnificent!

The people we met and spoke to were really friendly and hospitable.  We were always offered tea and quite often a banana sweet - its really difficult to explain what it is but it is a sticky banana paste that have been wrapped in banana leaf - and in the middle they put either dried rice or ground nuts ... mmmmm!  On many occasions we were also offered vodka (of course) and we were also invited for lunch!  I also found that people we somewhat unaccustomed to westerners in the villages because we difinitely caused a stir ... and the villagers did not think it unseemly to touch, prod and poke you as you walked by.

Oh and by the way, Vietnamese food is absolutely great!  I loved the 'forest vegetables' that they served as well as the bamboo.  The chicken I had was not the greatest but they really know how to do pork!  And of course rice mmmm... all different kinds of rice!  And I learned to eat fish (thanks Marius)!  Yes can you believe it ... but it just looked and smelled so good ... tasted quite good as well ... and then there was the chilli and wasabi and well I could go on and on ...

And thats about it for now ... I don't have any trip scheduled for a while so its home routine for now ... a good thing I think :)

Enjoy the pics!

ps. Derek - I include some pics of the game I saw playing at the museum ;)  They said its Vietnamese Chess (?)


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a wonderful two week birthday!

Another birthday is over and done with - not so bad getting older when you do it in the Kruger won't you say? Wow - what a great two weeks!  I spent from the 6th to the 18th of March up in Limpopo, the first week in Venda self, doing some work and the second week attending a Network Meeting in Skukuza - which means I had A LOT of time in the Park! Thank you to everyone for all the nice messages you left for me on facebook and my phone ... yes unfortunately one does not alwyas have connectivity in these remote places and I was a little concerned that I only got signal on my phone at about 10:30 the morning of my birthday ... not ideal! BUT I got all the messages so that made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside :)  On top of that I was absolutely blessed by seeing a lion on the morning of my birthday - check out the pic of my birthday lion (photo courtesy of Marius)!  I was so bewildered I did not know my left from my right!  I was also 'given' a birthday bird ... check out the pic (courtesy of Marius...again) of the Green Woodhoepoe .... very apt being green and all ;)  But it does make a bit of noise mmm... wonder if Marius was trying to tell me something ???

Anyway let me tell you a bit about the first week.  We spent some time visiting local leaders of the villages we are working in and it seems they are all quite pleased with our progress (phew!) ... lots of pressure there ... these days I am more of the opinion now than ever before that you really cannot expect people to just freely give of their time and be gracious and answer all your questions without at least giving something back!  And I am not talking about money - just the decency to come and tell people what you have found - sharing the results! One of the communities told us that no-one had ever brought back the research results to them - this was the first time!  How terrible! I was truly appalled and felt sickened to be associated with the label 'researcher'.  I think the ethical issues involved with research with people - especially poor rural people is very complex and it is only once you are 'there' in the trip, in their houses that that weight truly makes its presence known - well at least it does for me.

I did have the opportunity to go to Lake Fundudzi ... yes not just see it from afar ... I ACTUALLY WENT THERE!!!!!!  Can you believe it!  Was a lovely experience and it was really amazing to go there.   Livhuvhani (our Venda interpreter) was a bit apprehensive and so was I knowing all the myths and stories .... We asked the villagers for directions and eventually we could go no further in the car ...so through a pool we walked (I am happy to say that my new 4x4 hiking boots did a good job!), underneath a canopy of forest and amongst hundreds of butterflies and onto the Fundudzu plain! Magical! (check the pic of me at the Lake!)

We also had the opportunity to stay at Singo Camp in the Makuya reserve - I made lots of use of their pool which was a good thing as we had very little water - I eventually had to wash my hair in bottled water!  Yes yes I know very girlie girl but hell if you really want to see me in a foul mood then my hair has to be dirty!  It was also really hot and us three (MArius, Geoff and myself) looked a but rough around the edges when eveutally we arrived in Bateleur camp... needless to say I made ample use of their very nice showers and hot water at Bateleur! BAteleur was stunning.  Its a bush camp and for the two nights we were there we were absolutely the only people there - bliss! I was a bit disappointed that the road to the Bateleur Lake had been shortened which meant that our view of the Lake was very limited, nevertheless we saw lots of nice birds at the Lake - and it is still stunning there!  From there we drove (on my birthday) to Skukuza - a culture shock to someone like myself who really only frequent the northern part of the camp.  Oh my goodness - the attitude of people when arriving at a lion (or the like) sighting is absolutely horrendous.  People can be horrid - the sense of entitlement that some have is really overwhelming so much so that it makes something as magical as a lion sighting quite unpleasant!  Frankly I think its better in the northern part of the camp - sure there are less animals there but there are also definitely much less people there!  By the way, who brings a crying baby to a bird hide????  I couldn't quite figure that one out!

I have to thank Geoff and MArius for a lovely two weeks worth of birthday (tequila, birds, animals, songs, beer, braai's and laughter)!  Keeping up with the guys for the two weeks was quite something ... sometimes a bit on the wild side but lots of good fun.  We did see 135 different kinds of birds ... courtesy of the Marius 2011 Birdguide ;) and had running commentry from Geoff - we had a very good hierarchy of birds figured out by the end of the trip ... ask me sometime ;)  We also saw 28 different kinds of mammals which is apperently quite good ... and other animals too such as reptiles but according to *someone* in the car "they do not count"!

In the end it was a great two weeks and I really enjoyed myself.  Who says work trips can't be fun too??

oops... almost forgot - I nearly got eaten by a hyena! Seriously!  One night at the newtork dinner - I was sitting and chatting - behind me the Skukuza golf course green - the lady across from me very calmly and without any hint of drama says to me "oh look there is a hyena behind you" as you can imagine I was NOT calm - I got up from my seat (very very fast) ran around the table to the other side only to stare a crouching hyena in the face!  Everyone else around the table thought it was a real laugh (thanks guys).  Apparently the golf course is open to the animals and they can roam about freely - stupid me thought that was just another MArius joke ... not so!  Clearly!  Anyway ... the hyena started galoping across the green to the other side and then back but never actually came closer... but he was close enough according to me... I never really felt comfortable there again!  Needless to say I now have a very healthy fear of hyena's.

Btw. I am off to Vietnam in about a week and a half - Nikki says rather me than her .... so wish me luck!


Ok - if you a bit confused, this is was our journey: Pta-Makhado (stayed at Azimbo lodge - lovely but too close to the road)-Singo Camp in Makuya-BAteluer Camp in Kruger-Skukuza Camp in Kruger- Pta.

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holiday pictures

Ok - so a quick update.  I have just returned from holiday at Dwarswegstrand near Mosselbay.  What a lovely place and journey.  I really could have stayed there for a nother few weeks.  Sometimes we forget how beutiful our own country is - well I was well and truly reminded on this trip! See my pics of the journey - sunflowers in the Free State; lots and lots of rain in the Karoo; Meiringspoort; Outeniqua Pass; and the sea!

Off again tomorrow! Phew!

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from now on I am only going to have 'last minute' holidays

Can someone please tell me why it is that when you have planned your holiday well in advance, made sure everything is in place, and frankly everything should go smooth sailing, it doesn't? 

It is the week before I am supposed to go on holiday and suddenly there is a thousand things that creeps out from under some rock waiting for this exact moment to ruin all my well laid plans! As a result I find that I have turned into a screaming, weeping, frustrated monster!  Everything is a trigger - don't even email me with a request because it will just rub me up the wrong way.  I have a list of 13 things to do before I go and frankly if you are not on that list you don't exist - simple as that! 

I think from now on I should only do 'last minute' holidays so to confuse those rock dweller 'things' who come out at the most inopportune times and make my inner-monster appear.

baking updated

ok so I forgot to take a picture last night ... and I forgot to take a picture this morning ... only remembered that "mmmm... a picture might be a good idea!" this afternoon after six people had already had their fair share.  Sorry ... so the pics you see here are all that is left of the delicious (by the way) chocolate cake I baked last night!

ps. while it was great while it lasted ... not too sure I will try it again soon ;)

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baking

So, um well I baked a cake tonight.  Don't worry this won't turn into a Julie, Julia and Karen ... I am NOT that ambitious.  But boosted by my recent muffin success I attempted to bake a chocolate cake tonight... for tomorrow its Marius' b-day .. hope the cake turns out ok (what was I thinking??).

Currently it is under a dish towel to "cool down" ... that was instruction number 23 (from Liz).  So that is why there is no picture yet ... I just hope the thing cooked all the way through.  I must say having to put in so much energy and focus on a recipe really took my mind off all kinds of other troubling things ... and then the icing/chocolate/caramel topping... yum!

Will keep you updated :/

back in India

There is a madness in India that is somewhat intoxicating ... yes yes I am currently in India and being here always make we want to philosophize!  I was driving through the 'old' city of Hyderabad this evening and was once again reminded that India is a place of contrasts!  Driving past big billboards that advertise the ridiculous fashions of the rich and the 'ultimate' life to strive for, massive shop windows with shiny new appliances .. whilst below you have the fruit-sellers, beggars and the people of the streets.  I find that I constantly have to decide for myself whether or not I like it here because at once you are horrified and mesmerized.  I am here for another week and a bit and I am sure I will be asking myself this about a hundred times!

I am also struggling to sleep ... it seems that these cities in India never sleep!  My hotel neighbour has his TV on until two in the morning, the road crew started a new project across the road last night at eleven  - luckily tonight the jackhammer is silent,and  at about 1am the hooting eventually grows less but there is still a hum that I hear.  Anyway I am going to try and sleep now ... put the ipod really loud ;)

ps.I have taken some pics but haven't downloaded any yet ... watch this space though ...

Christmas 2010

So it was Christmas, and now it is over. It feels like I blinked and now it’s gone!  We are at warp speed and it is impossible to turn back the time.  I heard something interesting on a programme I was watching this afternoon – the narrator said … “why is it that we can only travel forward through time?” … I like that …what an intriguing question don’t you think?  I had about ten things on my ‘things to do’ list before the holidays and in fact I think it has grown!  So in an effort to do some of those things I switched on my computer today and as you can see that really worked … writing this blog was definitely at the top of that list ;)

 

Anyway I thought I might share some of what my Christmas looked like this year.  It was oh so quiet – just me, Liz, the parentals, George the Labrador and the cats.  It still feels strange to have a Christmas without my Gran – she used to plan way ahead … what she is going to make for dinner, sending me out to the shops to buy her ingredients for the trifle she made every year, helping her cover presents, including my own because her old fingers could no longer do the fiddly bits! But I am smiling because it really feels like I was channelling my Gran this Christmas – I even made shortbread and you know following a recipe is as difficult for me as filling in a form!  (Check out my pics – they really turned out quite tasty! Sorry you weren’t around to taste one :0).

 

See some of the pics I took of my very full tree, and George and the cats getting some pressies!

 

I hope you had a lovely Christmas – and hopefully this year to come will be better than the last!

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oh the guilt!

Guilt is a wasted emotion ... or so they say ... or so even I have said.  So why is it that in some situations you just cannot get rid of it?  Currently I am suffering from guilt.  Here is the evidence: last night I met up with some former colleagues/ current friends for dinner in Johannesburg.  I had a few drinks and a absolutely lovely fillet steak drenched in cream and whiskey ...mmm..mmmm.  Today after some work, and because I hardly ever see these friends we went out for lunch.  I had a lovely beef lasagne and I could not resist the Tiramisu.  Ok gals ... why do you think I am feeling guilty???  Of course I can hear someone somewhere trying to calculate the calories (luckily I am not really any good at math so counting calories has never really worked for me).  But here is the rub... why oh why do I feel guilty - it is not as if I do this everyday - in fact I have been very "good" recently ... but you see, there I go again - ascribing those positive and negative values to behaviour in relation to food ... sheesh people are we (I) so socialised (indoctrinated?) that despite everything I think I know about being ok-with-yourself-and-bodies-and-food-and-women-and-food-and-self-acceptance-and-all-that-stuff, I still feel guilty!?
 
Isn't socialisation a bitch ... because honestly .. as I am writing this I am thinking about how I am not eating anything for the rest of the week!  No wonder we have girls and women who end up with horrible self esteem issues, bullimea and annorexia ... I am supposed to know better ( I do know better) and yet here I am contemplating *my* guilt!